"She is part of your life but she is not the whole part of it."
That's what my friend said to his best friend. His best friend totally changed since he got a new girlfriend. He spent the whole time of his life for this lady. And he forgot to take care of his academic things, friends, etc.
I am not going to tell you a story about him. I am going to discuss about the quote. Let me rewrite the quote for you in a different version, of course.
"........ is part of your life but ........ is not the whole part of it."
Then, fill in the blanks, please! The words "She", it could refer anything or anyone. It could be our hobby; it could be our special person. Some of us (maybe most of us) have something to fill into the blanks. It is normal because we tend to focus on something. But we also forget about many things in our life.
In my perfect version of life:
We can spend most of our time studying something, but not the whole of it.
We can spend most of our time playing basketball, but not the whole of it.
We can spend most of our time with our lover, but not the whole of it.
What I am trying to say is we really can get into something we love, but we aren't supposed to forget our duty, our liabilities, our calling because of it.
At the bottom line, life should be balance. How to do it? You are the one who got the answer for your own life.
So, "get a life, bro!"
9 comments:
entah kenapa musik2 yang ada kebanyakan "ngomongin" wanita alias "she"...atau mungkin lebih tepatnya lagi "cinta"...hihihi
"She is part of your life but she is not the whole part of it." ada benarnya juga ben!!..
nice blog, Ben.. gue link ya, boleh tak?
btw, kok gue kaya tau org yg lo maxud? heheh.. sotoy bgt yak! :)
@Zul: lah Zul, kan cinta bisa beda artinya.. buat kekasih dan juga buat orang lain.. hehe..ngeles..
@mita: boleh mit.. hehe.. lo pasti tau lah.. hahha.. at least dia inspire g lah..
huwhuw.. omben emang ombenbijak. setuju benn.
(blog walking dari yasmin)
nice one!
saya suka skali ituuuuuu!!! ;))
"........ is part of your life but ........ is not the whole part of it."
@Min: lebih bijak lo kale min.. haha.. anw, thanks
@nad: Thanks.. haha.. You got nice blog too!
Ya kalo nggak bijak mana dipanggil Om Ben :D
*Ben, sudah gw link. Link balik yaw ?
:)
interesting. keep posting sumthing like this.
truly inspired Om Benhard Adolf.
@chi: thanks yaaa..
@mie: wahahha.. thanks mie.. hope helps.
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